My daughter has learned a great deal about romance compatibility since she left home and got her own place when she was twenty-one years old. She has gone through a number of relationships leading up to her finding love compatibility and getting married when she was twenty-nine years old. Now she is a genuine mama with two beautiful children - a two-year-old girl and a one-year old boy. She is in a position of being able to advise her friends - mostly a couple years younger than her - about love compatibility. Not surprisingly, a large percentage of her friends are not married, although a few are single mothers. From my viewpoint, single mothers really need help in the love compatibility area. Love compatibility is the basis of a long-term relationship. A permanent, long-term relationship is what is at the heart of every woman’s needs. No woman is looking for a short-term empty relationship. A woman can easily feel love compatibility with an attractive man but what I think needs to be looked at honestly is whether there is love compatibility from the man’s viewpoint. If there is not mutual love compatibility between a man and a woman then there is an imbalance in the relationship. One partner is expecting more than the other partner can comfortably give. One partner will never be satisfied and the other will never be able to satisfy.
This kind of mismatch happens with new couples repeatedly. I see it regularly. My wife and I have been happily married since March 17, 1977. Thirty-three years this month! I would say we have love compatibility. I am not saying that I have not put my wife through some rough times at different points, but I have been there with her to go through those times together. When I met her in 1973 for the first time, it was at my job. She had already scoped me out when she worked in another department before she came into my department to work. The first time I laid eyes on her my heart skipped a beat. Everything about her appearance screamed romance compatibility to me. I fell in love with her right then but I was in such shock I didn’t realize what happened to me until later on that night when I went to bed and thought about her. It was easy to fall for her because she had already fallen for me and decided to be with me before I had even laid eyes on her. Here we are together after all of these years and we both feel comfortable with each other. That’s a charm.
What about all of those young couples that get married and then find their marriage falling apart after just a couple of years? What about their love compatibility? What can they do now that they have engaged in a lifelong relation
ship and probably have children? What can I say to help?
I went online and I started poking around the concept of love compatibility. I didn’t know for sure what I was looking for. I was thinking about one of my granddaughters and how she is in a new relationship with a very nice young man and they are planning on marriage. How could I communicate good advice to her? I came upon an online store called Perfume for Romance located at www.perfumeforromance.com. The store is totally dedicated to romance compatibility and carries products that aim to be a help in the eternal quest for love compatibility. I noticed a book available that you might not think was appropriate for a new marriage but if you really think about it, Save the Marriage by Lee H. Baucom PHD, could be the best book to begin with by solving problems before they even could start up.
Final Tip for love compatibility: Learn to be happy inside all of the time because that's what everyone is looking for in a relationship. If you have happiness you are romantically attractive.
