Love Compatibility Builds Over Time |
| 3/17/2010 2:20:30 AM |
Maybe it is that I’m still young and there is no kind of pressure to find a mate and start a family but I truly believe love compatibility begins with a strong friendship and blossoms from there. I’ve heard plenty of stories, second hand from people who meet, become infatuated with each other, basically move in together and then the wedding bells start ringing. I’ve been in a very long relationship with my girlfriend. We met through mutual friends years ago, she saw something she liked in me and then we kissed. At the time, I was a very shy guy; not exactly the person to make the initial move. She saw something through my quite laid-back persona and the relationship began.
What kept us together for so long has been our romance compatibility. We came from similar backgrounds and initially this is how we found common ground. Soon we lived out of state and found our ability to rehash old stories of growing up, understand exactly where we each had come from and share a common humor hard to find with other people, created an even stronger bond. Like all relationships, at some point, the passion began to fizzle and more time was spent arguing about mundane things.
Fights led to bad feelings toward one another but even after taking a break from one another, we always seemed to come back. I account this to our initial love compatibility. For some people, I think this is us, the general hostility that can come from a relationship turns into attraction. We are both strong-headed people who like to get the last word. This obviously ends in fights every so often. What gets us through it is the romance compatibility. Whenever I need an idea to spice up the relationship, I turn to online retailers like Perfume for Romance at http://www.perfumeforromance.com/ for something to brighten her day. An out of the blue gift like women's perfume or women's lingerie, goes a long way.
At our age, there are many fish in the sea and opportunity for new relationships. For whatever reason that has not pulled us apart. I’m not the kind of person to want to get married young. Neither is she. I’ve seen celebrities featured on entertainment news who go out for a decade without tying the knot. This makes sense to me. All I know is as long as the love compatibility stays true even with fights, a relationship will continue to grow. Especially in these tougher times, the people closest to us become so important.
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