romance compatibility


After the engagement, the parties, the wedding celebration and the honeymoon come the real thing called marriage! We all start out with the best of intentions. The question is how do we keep a marriage happy, productive and simply together?

I have learned that one key factor to a solid marital union lies in the romance department. However, after a period of erotic new experiences and enjoyment, things can loose their adventurous thrill. In comes some important romance compatibility questions.
 
I found a nice collection of romance compatibility questions on line to ponder with your mate. Let me share a few: 

1.  During the first year of marriage I imagine we will have sex 

     a.  daily
     b.  3-5 times a week
     c.  weekly
     d.  once every 3-4 weeks

2.  True or False

     I expect alot of sexual experimentation to be part of our marriage

3.  Vasectomy as a birth control measure is

     a.  a possibility
     b.  a probability
     c.  doubtful
     d.  an impossibility

Ask yourself before getting into the romance compatibility questions if the subject matter will embarrass you. If you are truly "ok" with it then no area of discussion is off limits. This leaves the opportunity for rational decision making and agreements before that moment of passion.