love compatibility, romance compatibility


For most people, love compatibility is all about a feeling. In reality, love compatibility is about a lot more than just feeling good. Most of the time, we measure our love compatibility with other people by the feeling we get in our stomachs whenever we are close to them. The problem is that this intense feeling with dissipate with time, we might not want to hear it or face it, but it will go away. At this point, most people think that the love compatibility they used to have is not there anymore and decide to move on. Real love compatibility has to do with hard issues like, attitude toward money, child rearing, religion, long term life’s goals etc. This might sound completely unromantic, but we should look at love compatibility as a business merger. We are taking two people and try to fuse them into one. The combination will only work if the hard issues match with each other. It does not matter how much you “feel” for someone else, if these hard issues do not match, ultimately there is no love compatibility. Nonetheless, the feeling of love can cause one to invest a lot of time into something that just won’t be fruitful in the end. Those looking for a fling might be ok with just having the feeling but those looking for something that lasts should look for real romance compatibility.